Binders Full of Women? Mormon, Please. . .

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Mormon Facepalm

Apparently, Mitt Romney picked female employees as governor of Massachusetts the same way the polygamists on HBO’s Big Love picked their child brides. Note to Mitt: never use the phrase “binders full of women” again.

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Online Dating — Angry Profiles are Not Attractive, Ladies

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Fat Women are Lazy, Thin Women are Bitchy — Say Other Women

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